It seems my input and opinions are not wanted. They might be genuinely loving and helpful. And if you have kids, what was your in-laws relationship with them? I would say what I thought before the thought had even fully formed. We live within 30 minutes of them, so if they call, I'll have supper with them or whatever.
Some may find it comforting to see their in-laws and others may find it too hard. They know how to get ahold of me and my sons, if they want to. Desis are all about family and community support so most in-laws will be around or in-touch for awhile. They were a toxic bunch! I can understand their issues, their behavior's, but the children don't, and I have no answers for them as to why they don't have sleepover's anymore If you are still in touch with your in-laws, do you invite them or ask them for their blessing? Eventually the interactions may become less and less, possibly even stopping. I honestly did not think this was so common a sad problem!! Those of you who have that have either really paid your dues at some point or were saints in your former lives. I don't think it is always like this. Permalink Reply by Samantha was clare on October 21, at 7: Get more like this in masalamommas e-news: Follow her on twitter desiinlaws and online at: Permalink Reply by Tamtunka on July 3, at 8: You know I always do. Jeff spent 5 days in hospital before passing, his family there all day everyday. Reply Permalink Reply by mahagen on July 2, at 7: You guys have had it too good already. Share your thoughts with us below. If kids are involved, your in-laws are most likely going to want to be involved. Discussing your feelings and choices may help avoid hurt feelings. Some South Asians can even take this to the extreme and imply the daughter is no longer part of her birth family, resulting in abandonment if her spouse passes away. Reply Permalink Reply by Tamtunka on July 3, at 8: I know desis prefer indirect communication but sometimes direct communication can have its benefits. We do have to consider another aspect. After the initial devastation passes a bit, the subject of seeing your in-laws may come up.
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